For me and my hubby, we actually didn't really try very hard as we are somehow not prepared to have a baby. We try seeing a TMC but it doesn't help. The TMC is very lousy, didn't even feel my pulse to diagnose, just say that I had PCOS because the hairs on my hand are very long, what kind of stupid logic is this??? Totally waste my $$ seeing her. Last year May, we went to see a gynae at Thomson Medical, we did all sorts of test and the result came back normal. She told me to try until Dec, if still no news, go back and take the clomid from her. I was given folic acid. I didn't go back to take the clomic acid as I am sure that my ovulation is normal. Somewhere in Mar'13, I saw this post on facebook regarding a soup for woman with fertility issues and those that has abnormal periods.
After reading the post, I was convinced that the soup will be effective. So I start boiling the soup and drink it once a month and I would avoid cold food and drinks. After drinking it the 4th time, my period was late. I tested on 30/06 night with a test kit that I just bought from Malaysia. It shows 1 obvious line and 1 blur line, I thought my eyes were playing a trick on me, so I show my husband and he confirmed there is a faint line. He didn't know what it meant, so I told him that a faint line can be considered as Positive. He was so shocked, haha. So the next day, he bought 2 more kit for me to test. Was supposed to test a few days later but I couldn't wait and was almost certain that I an preggy cause I hv been feeling extremely tired and has stomach cramps. So I tested again at night with a Clearblue kit and indeed it was 2 clear lines! Its finally a BFP!
The first person that I notify is my Mum, but she doesn't sound very happy, just very normal. My husband has told his sisters, his best friends, sworn brothers, boss, colleagues about it, he is damn excited, haha.